This blog also unposted since 2007..
What am I doing??
Well, life had been a script written for you before you are born.
This will also determine what kind of life you will have down the road.
Some might born with a silver spoon. Some born with a wooden spoon.
But life does changes along the way. You can just upgrade from a wooden spoon to a nice silver one.
It will all based on the decision made along the way.
Watching too much TV serials gets you plenty of ideas for yourself along the way.
Seeing people working hard and not bowing to the fate.
Thats what most people should have in our life. Want a good life. Work for it.
Some had a good life. Then they had to substain it. Or grow it further up the steps.
1st type is easier to reach. As you will be easier to be satisfied.
So once you got a little better life, you stop at the level.
If you are the 2nd type when you need to substain it.
There will be a different type of pressure faced. You got to make sure it will not drop below standard.
Cos people expect you to grow from there.
Indeed now people see me like Im born with a silver spoon.
But mind you, my life wasnt in this way before I was in Sec 2.
Before that my dad was working hard for my granddad.
The only thing he know was to work and work with no play.
And my dad only receive little for what he had sweat for.
Not that I had a bad life then. It was then when I learn how to save up.
Ensure that I do not spend more than what I can afford. So my savings grew from there.
After my dad took over the realms from my granddad. Life also doesnt change immediately.
But soon results were shown. Which grew on till now. Being thrifty is a virtue. Being stingy is an error.
Nobody would like to see a stingy friend or a spendthrift one.
Everytime you got to set budget on your spending. So you will not over spend on your budget.
Spending too much still can cut by by own discipline. T
he stingy one is likely to be an unsightful one.
This is someone whom my buddies and I had experience for years.
If you ever see this kind of friend.
When you had advise him for years.
And yet he doesnt change.
So what will be the consequences faced?
He will be left with no friends.
Just so simple. The script written for his life had indeed being very funny.
Can be written up and be film as a short movie.
Or a blockbuster titled, The Stingy Man How about writing another story on,
Love affairs. On how love evolves then revolves.
When some to keep on a long endurance ride on a miserable journey.
Some to keep in waiting for the one to appear.
Then some to experience heartaches when the journey makes a turn.
And some to see unmatached coming together.
Woah this stories can be written just like any HK drama.
Ok, this shall be the next little drama to write on.
This kind of script is for everyone, anyone.
The way of life. Life has indeed been different for all people.
You can never find a double of you in your life.
Too many things to post. But quite alot did halfway thru only..
So do wait for the new ones to be posted.
Roger so far..
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DeviLbiker 3:16 at 1:56 am
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Happen to see this draft which was created 8 years ago but I never post!!
Below are what has written then..
I guess nobody ever get all his decisions right.
In the 26 years of my life.
In so many times I got to make one.
Which changes the path of my life.
Big or small you just got to make.
Wrong ones just grind your teeth and pull it through
Before another chance for you to decide come to place.
Way back to 1992 when I took my PSLE.
Make a wrongful decision, thinking that it will be easier than the prelims.
Thus never really study real hard for it.
So only managed to scrape into the express stream in Woodsville.
Instead of Tanjong Katong which I had a high chance to go to.
End 1993. Back from TKD lesson.
Saw Granddad seem like not feeling well.
Should have bring him to the doctors that very nite.
Cos the stroke really struck him hard the next day.
Which is a Sat and Im still at BB enjoying.
Ever since his health worsen day by day.
Then when Im in sec 3..
I was all wrong again to enjoy all my afternoon playing soccer.
Which result in repeating one year in it.
Always trying to use intelligence to overcome hardwork.
That was why I did badly in my GCE 'O' again
Which then in 1995.
I had to choose between The Boys' Brigade and TKD.
Bearing in mind.
Cpl in The Boys' Brigade.
Taking my black belt in just the next grading.
Luckily I miss the good chance of doing TKD as sports.
But increase my knowledge in stuffs from BB..
So this decision had came right..
For it build on and I get my set of Real Friends.
1997 once again use intelligence over hardwork.
So never really did well for it.
And off I go to ITE TP in 1998.
This year also result in a death of my fellow school mate.
Just around 2 months to our 'O' levels.
She happen to fall and die after a few days of struggle in hospital.
To be honest.
She the type of girl I'm looking for.
If I had pull out my guts then..
She might be still alive here..
1998 got involved in a relationship..
After which I decided to end it.
Because of my friend who seem to be interested in her also.
So I decided to end it.
As my friend seem to be drifting apart.
A decision which was neither right nor wrong.
Its either I got the girl or still have my friend.
Cos in the end, my friend also do not have it.
Guess that I had made the right choice by giving it up.
(this is too long to write here, want to know ask me)
End 1998.
This time is with another girl.
I believe there my indeciviseness caused it once again.
And now no more of any chance liao.
1999, I had the chance for poly.
But I choose to carry on in ITE
Ended here.. perhaps I should write on??
Hmmm.. let me think about it..
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DeviLbiker 3:16 at 1:50 am
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Today marks the 1st month Athena Kong has being our life.
It has been a wonderful journey for siew keng and me to be Athena's parent.
Everyday is a learning process for both of us and trying to give her the very best.
Nothing came easy so its all hands on and doing it.
Everyday we have been taking photos of her growing up.
The small little changes which she have.
Sweet little smile she have is enough to melt your heart away.
1st month celebration thou will be on 1st June (sunday)
Today traditional practise will still be done for her.
Slowly again I will blog here for all moments of Athena life.
Stay tune.
Cos SY said so..
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DeviLbiker 3:16 at 1:42 am
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Being Promoted | Friday, May 09, 2014
Promotion in Life
This is considered to be another milestone in anyone's life.
Yes, my wife (sk) and me has been promoted as parent of our dear baby princess Athena Kong.
After months of waiting with excitement that our life will change with a new addition.
So in year 2014 both of us will celebrate our very 1st mothers' and fathers' day.
Well the promotion isnt today. Coincidentally her birthday is on 29th April, so now we got another 29 in our life.
We are start dating on 29 Nov 2011
ROM on 29 September 2012
Chinese Customary on 29 June 2013
Our baby girl now on 29 May 2014
Life has been great these 10 days being a father and looking forward for everyday.
Photos will be up soon..
Or stay tune to my facebook page
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DeviLbiker 3:16 at 3:07 pm
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Yes, after so long of search and finally found the one..
Oops and now I know that this very blog of mine has went asleep.
After settling the 1st part of my wedding - ROM.
The 2nd part is due soon on 29 June 2013.
Marina Bay Sands (MBS) being my venue for my wedding lunch.
I guess after I got to know my ex-girlfriend aka wife, I never blog at all.
I never even post any pictures, wrote any feelings here.
Guess the power of Facebook (FB) has drawn us to do overthing there.
Just an update on how I get to know my wife.
We happen to come out for a gathering at Li Xiong working place, Fire fly, Marriot Hotel.
All thanks to William and Susan, our match-maker.
Because of them, we got the chance to know each other.
And for the numbers of Coffee Bean meetup, Batam trip......
Finally we got together after 2 months.
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DeviLbiker 3:16 at 2:50 pm
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Sometimes I really wonder if I should pen here again or fill you with other stuffs which I came thru my life.
It also seem good to share to you all kind of horrible people out there, the nice food out there, interesting places to be at and also bicycles which I love.
SBR
Website of this team shall be up soon.
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DeviLbiker 3:16 at 2:49 pm
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Team SBR 2012 | Monday, February 20, 2012
After another year of waiting and planning for Team SBR. Finally we manage to get something in for the group of riders. Now we do not need to worry on the race fee as we had managed to secure some sponsor/advertiser.
Presently we do not have the numbers as Joyrider, not the pace of Bikelabz and even the experience of Geylang team. But rest assured, we will be working towards this goal, to grow our Team and make it a team everyone will want to be with.
A layout of activities we will be doing for this 1st half of the year.
1. OCBC 2012 in March
2 Desaru in May
3. Ipoh century ride in June
Other then these major activities, we will still do our every wednesday nite ride and Saturday morning ride. Updates can be found at www.teamsbr.webs.com
Roger so far..
Cos SY said so.
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DeviLbiker 3:16 at 3:58 pm
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Seng Bee Riders (SBR) | Saturday, April 16, 2011
Had been trying hard these few years to revive the group once Seng Bee had but always it came to a halt due to lack of riders and commited riders too.
However now with a few more riders now armed with passion for the like of Relax cycling, Action cycling, Style riding, you are most welcome to join us.
This group has revived mostly due to Gavin aka gvnmorris who had managed to form up City Ride has drawn much interest from much riders with pure TC session during weekdays on ad-hoc basis.
Other than City Ride on weekdays on ad-hoc basis, we had now every wednesday nite ride for roadbikers who want to do a little bit more cycling but on a more relax pace of 30-35km/h on Coastal road.
Then came Saturday nite where all riders will meet up 8.30pm for a nice leisure ride to various part of Singapore.
Lets count the total strength of riders we will have if all turn up.
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DeviLbiker 3:16 at 12:57 am
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Im Back | Tuesday, April 20, 2010
Finally, Im back here blogging again.. It has been a long stop. Has been wondering how come I can blog so much last time. But now, nothing seem to come out again. Perhaps too many things to deal with. Or just to say things has been uneventful..
But recalling back the few months in 2010. Perhaps nothing really spectacular has happen. Cos still Single.
Had a very nice family trip to Taipei during CNY period. Even though it has been raining for the 5 days while we were there. But we had enjoyed every moment together.
Then in March, I was back there again. For the bike show in Taipei. 1st time been to such a big bike show. Luckily managed to get back quite a few contacts. And now making sure it will grow..
Other than these 2 overseas trip Now every sat nite is cycling time once again. Do visit this website. http://Devilbikers.weebly.com
Will update soon.
Roger so far.. Cos SY said so..
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DeviLbiker 3:16 at 1:21 am
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End of Year 2009 | Tuesday, December 08, 2009
Year 2009 is coming to an end.
And its the time for anyone or everyone to make a new year resolution on what to achieve next year.
And I actually completed this in Feb 2010..
Oh gosh.. its been a longgg time since I update this blog
Anyway its already 2 months into year 2010. Been Bz with shop business and my volunteer life. Guess that its time to do something for my own personal life.
Other than that nothing much for me to woryy about.
Had my degree last year. Had a few planned trip this year. Had formed quite a new cycling group.
So now just got to wait and see..
Roger so far..
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DeviLbiker 3:16 at 10:27 pm
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