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Destiny of Oneself | Friday, December 16, 2005


*Destiny of Oneself*

How do we shape our life??
Leaving it to fate aka destiny?
Or do we had to stand out and fight for it?
This seem to be a diffcult question for everyone.

If one left it to fate and when later fails.
He will then blame it on fate rather than himself.
However if he try and fail at least he does his best.

So fate can be quite a joke to someone.
At least to me.
Cos for me I dont seem to haf faith in fate.
Which I trust if Im not working hard for it.
I will bound to lose out.
To someone who might be better.
Ya thats why I say might.

For me, I believe that once my fate came.
I shall treat the one and only with the best.
I do hope Im able to shape up my own destiny.
However I will still leave it to fate.
What meant for you will be yours.
However if it doesnt, no matter how hard you fight.
It will still be zero.

Writing this earlier cos i'll be doing duty tomorrow night.
Thats why penning down something earlier.
Sometimes ideas ran out and theres nothing good to write.
Perhaps do injects me with new type of feelings.
Cos feelings of one's heart can touch someone.
They will know how you feel and hows your heart.
They might be of some solution to your problem.
And they are your friends.
Your true friends, they will be more than willing to lend,
Their listening ears for you to pour out.

Friends
In this living world, other than our parents, relatives
And those running the same blood stream as yours
The very next group of people will be your friends.
As what I had said, they will be your motivator,
comfortor, teacher and others in your walk in life.
However there may be some unpleasant ones.
So let it be, where in life everything will be perfect.

Luckily for me in my life.
Im able to meet a bunch of great friends out there.
And I shall not hesitate to name them out.

The closest group namely BB group aka XVI
Consisting of Edward, Junjie, Weilik, Kelvin, Hancheng and James.
Including me thats form the seven of us.
We had grew up together in form of BB.
When at that time we spend the whole of Sat together.
The kind of bonding is thick.
All will be more than willing to help you in times of difficulty.

The other group of mine will be the ITE group.
Jacky, William are the closer ones.
Perhaps we are staying around the same area.
The others are also friends whom at times had distant apart.

Pri, Poly and Sec only has a few close ones.
However some had lost contacts (Pri)
Aidil the only sincere friend (sec)
Jeremy in the Poly.
These are the few friends whom you can talk to.

Friends are always important.
You may need their help here and there.
Be it small or major matters they will be there.
And remember these words.
Treat them with sincerity.
If not you will be outcast.

A failed man (read in chinese)
As what our initial group of 8 to be reduced to 7 now.
Just because we feel that his thinking isnt the same.
Never be selfish, try to do your part as a friend.
Cos everyone has eyes to see.
Ya indeed you do not need big bucks to treat your friend.
Just those small little things you done will be appreciated.
Too bad hes already out.

TBC......

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